{"id":967,"date":"2021-12-31T14:17:44","date_gmt":"2021-12-31T14:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/?p=967"},"modified":"2022-01-01T16:39:30","modified_gmt":"2022-01-01T16:39:30","slug":"hibs-and-ross-county-fans-on-final-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/?p=967","title":{"rendered":"Munroe Bergdorf: ‘Ge\u00e7i\u015f kendim i\u00e7in bir sevgi eylemiydi’"},"content":{"rendered":"

Model ve aktivist, 34, cesaret, mutluluk ve do\u011faya geri d\u00f6nme \u00fczerine<\/p>\n

Essex’teki Stansted Mountfitchet’de Tories’in B\u00f6l\u00fcm 28’i alt\u0131nda\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm.<\/strong>\u00a0Bu \u00e7ok zordu. \u00d6\u011fretmenlerin e\u015fcinselli\u011fi te\u015fvik etmeleri yasakt\u0131, bu da homofobik zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131nayamayacaklar\u0131 anlam\u0131na geliyordu. \u00c7ok fazla zorbal\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\t\t

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Ge\u00e7i\u015fimi<\/strong>\u00a0g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum \u2013 bu kendim i\u00e7in bir sevgi eylemiydi. Sonuna nas\u0131l bakaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyordum ama daha mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m inanc\u0131 do\u011fdu. Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ok fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fime bakmaya odaklanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Hayat\u0131mdaki en \u00e7ok mutlulu\u011fu bana getiren de bu.<\/p>\n

Cesaret \u015fifayla birlikte gelir.<\/strong>\u00a0Hepimiz korkun\u00e7 \u015feyler ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. \u00d6yle ya da b\u00f6yle hepimiz travma ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Hayat zor. Cesaret, travmaya maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyle y\u00fczle\u015fmekten gelir.<\/p>\n

Yar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z ver olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011finin\u00a0bilincindeyim.<\/strong>\u00a0Sahip oldu\u011fumuz her g\u00fcn i\u00e7in elimizden gelen her \u015feyi yapmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u0130lk kez<\/strong>\u00a0Cinsiyet co\u015fkusunun, sevgili bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n bana \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek, \u00e7ok \u015f\u0131k bir \u00c7ift Christian Louboutin topuklu ayakkab\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman oldu\u011funu hissettim. Onlar\u0131 giydim ve an\u0131nda olmak istedi\u011fim kad\u0131n gibi hissettim.<\/p>\n

\u0130nternet y\u00fcz\u00fcnden konu\u015fma sanat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015fiz\u00a0gibi hissediyorum.<\/strong>\u00a0Ortak bir yer bulabilmeye, anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 a\u015fmaya geri d\u00f6nmeliyiz. \u0130nsan deneyiminin n\u00fcans\u0131 var. Birbirimizi 2D olarak g\u00f6rmekten olumlu bir \u015fey \u00e7\u0131kmaz.<\/p>\n

Alexander McQueen\u00a0<\/strong>\u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, v\u00fccudumdaki s\u0131cakl\u0131k g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fc hissettim. B\u00fcy\u00fck bir kay\u0131pt\u0131. \u015eovlar\u0131yla ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131, nas\u0131l sundu\u011fu e\u015fsiz ve e\u015fsizdi.<\/p>\n

Do\u011fada deneyimler ya\u015famaya\u00a0geri d\u00f6nmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00c7ok k\u0131rsal bir b\u00f6lgede b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm, bu y\u00fczden do\u011fa rezervlerine, milli parklara ve Hampstead Heath’e gitmekten ve ger\u00e7ek hayatta ba\u011f kurmaktan zevk al\u0131yorum. Pandemiden ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f, insan enerjisi gibisi yoktur. Sizi destekleyen ve sevenlerin yan\u0131nda olmak e\u015fsiz bir deneyimdir.<\/p>\n

M\u00fczik beni her zaman<\/strong>\u00a0ta\u015f\u0131r, bunun terap\u00f6tik bir ara\u00e7 oldu\u011funu, duygular\u0131 i\u015flemenin veya ortaya \u00e7\u0131karman\u0131n, hislerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmenin bir yolu oldu\u011funu erken \u00f6\u011frendim. Hayat\u0131mda ne\u015feye ihtiyac\u0131m oldu\u011funda, nostaljiye dokunuyorum ve bana daha iyi zamanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlatan m\u00fczikler dinliyorum.<\/p>\n

Be\u015f y\u0131l i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocuk sahibi\u00a0olmak istiyorum.<\/strong>\u00a0Trans oldu\u011funuzda ve kendi v\u00fccudumla \u00e7ocuk \u00fcretemedi\u011finizde, bu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a \u00e7ok fazla planlama gerektiren bir \u015feydir. Ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 severim.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden pi\u015fman olmamak i\u00e7in\u00a0\u00e7abal\u0131yorum.<\/strong>\u00a0Bu bir enerji israf\u0131. Daha \u00e7ok gurur duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015feylerden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m derslerden ders almaya odakland\u0131m. Hepimiz hata yapar\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Munroe, TK Maxx’in \u00c7ocuklar ve Gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in Kanser Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 \u0130ngiltere’yi desteklemek i\u00e7in \u0130yilik \u0130\u00e7in K\u0131yafetlerinden Vazge\u00e7’i destekliyor<\/em><\/p>\n\n\t\t

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Model ve aktivist, 34, cesaret, mutluluk ve do\u011faya geri d\u00f6nme \u00fczerine Essex’teki Stansted Mountfitchet’de Tories’in B\u00f6l\u00fcm 28’i alt\u0131nda\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm.\u00a0Bu \u00e7ok zordu. \u00d6\u011fretmenlerin e\u015fcinselli\u011fi te\u015fvik etmeleri yasakt\u0131, bu da homofobik zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131nayamayacaklar\u0131 anlam\u0131na geliyordu. \u00c7ok fazla zorbal\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131m. Ge\u00e7i\u015fimi\u00a0g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum \u2013 bu kendim i\u00e7in bir sevgi eylemiydi. Sonuna nas\u0131l bakaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyordum ama daha mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m inanc\u0131 do\u011fdu. …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1206,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[106],"class_list":["post-967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tie-life-style","tag-munroe-bergdorf"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=967"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/967\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1213,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/967\/revisions\/1213"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1206"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fonexmedya.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}